Tuesday, November 12, 2013

The Golden Year

American poet and philosopher, Henry David Thoreau shared, “You must live in the present, launch yourself on every wave, find your eternity in each moment…”

How do you interpret this quote?

Me?  This quote defines my year.  My golden year:  2013.

Friends told me that 2013 was MY year.  How was I suppose to know what that meant?  For those who truly know my style of “dissecting” each and every thought and idea that clouds my mind, you know that THAT is my greatest strength.  But with ever strength there is a weakness.

Things I’ve learned in the past 11 months (listed in no particular order):
  1. It will work if you want it to work
  2. Consuming 3 cups of regular coffee (on an empty stomach) before noon helps me complete all my “A” listed priorities on my to-do list
  3. My Bible is my security
  4. Informality gives me hives
  5. “Quality-time” is my love language
  6. I cannot go with the flow – I’m a planner and damn proud of it!
  7. Processes are my friend and structure creates the foundation
  8. I’m a whiskey girl; I am my father’s daughter
  9. Everything truly does happen for a reason, even if that reason presents itself years after or even a few days to a few months later
  10. Every person you connect with will play an important role in your life, no matter how little time you connect with them.
  11. Tomorrow is never promised, so love with all of your heart
  12. Think of those you love before you fall asleep every night
  13. All you need is 20 minutes of high intensity exercise!
  14. Pasta makes me feel lethargic
  15. Cauliflower mash is bomb.com
  16. A broken heart is an opportunity to a fresh start
  17. Team work makes the dream work
  18. Wherever you are -  at work, at home or with your friends - you are who you surround yourself with
  19. I deserve to be around people who value me
  20. God has his ways of bringing you back to where you belong
Growing up, my parents worked long hours and overtime, when they could.  I work hard because they worked hard (and they still work hard).  Dad always told us, “Your mom and I want you to have what we couldn't have. So finish school, travel the world and take care of your health.”

There are three factors that I finally realized what make a great career, for me.  They are:
  1. A career that allows me to live the best quality of life, by surrounding me with people who value healthy living and career growth.
  2. A career that gives me opportunities to travel and see the world because my parents always shared that you will learn so much about yourself when you travel .
  3. A career that challenges me in ways that I am willing to take because the organization and people I represent are worth it.
I have about 2.5 weeks left in San Diego and I am moving back to where I consider home.  The end of this year will begin with a new role, new responsibilities and new opportunities.  I will be the Assistant Director for Full-Time MBA Recruitment and Admissions at the Merage School of Business at UC Irvine and back with an awesome team! 

The year of 2013 is MY year because of everything I have learned and experienced.  The year of 2013 is just an introduction to the rest of my life.  You stay classy San Diego.


Monday, December 10, 2012

Living in the present...

Yes folks – you have 21 days left in 2012. You’re probably thinking, “Wow, where did this year go?” OR “Finally, I am so over this year!” Well, I say, “Who cares what happened this year! What am I going to do these last 21 days of 2012?!”

I’m a thinker. I reflect. I love to look back on what I learned. Mistakes I've made. People I've met. People I've lost. Guys I've dated. Places I've visited. Mountains I've climbed. Races I've ran. Songs I've sang. Sometimes I overwhelm myself with my own thoughts. Sometimes, you just gotta stop thinking and just do something!

Dude, let’s focus on RIGHT NOW. Live in the present. Enjoy what we have. We've got 21 days to end this year strong. What are you going to do? The adventure begins riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight... now!


 

Monday, August 1, 2011

Because it's important to reflect...

What a weekend. Spent time with family in Long Beach, spent time with friends in Seal Beach, enjoyed a low-key adventure with a particular individual in Orange. Ended the weekend with news that my grandmother is now resting in peace and free from suffering.


I am surrounded by very special people.


As I grow older, I become more and more accepting of life's results. I absorb these experiences - all positives and negatives - living in the moment and remembering how the past has shaped me today.


This is why I am who I AM. Don't try to convince me otherwise, I have a pretty tight grip on what brings me joy.

Thursday, February 24, 2011

Fix You

Great song. Great lyrics.

When you try your best, but you don't succeed
When you get what you want, but not what you need
When you feel so tired, but you can't sleep
Stuck in reverse

And the tears come streaming down your face
When you lose something you can't replace
When you love someone, but it goes to waste
Could it be worse?

Lights will guide you home
And ignite your bones
And I will try to fix you

And high up above or down below
When you're too in love to let it go
But if you never try you'll never know
Just what you're worth

Lights will guide you home
And ignite your bones
And I will try to fix you

Tears stream down on your face
When you lose something you cannot replace
Tears stream down on your face
And on your face I...

Tears stream down on your face
I promise you I will learn from my mistakes
Tears stream down on your face
And on your face I...

Lights will guide you home
And ignite your bones
And I will try to fix you




Monday, February 21, 2011

It's all G-double O-D...GOOD

Life seems to be good right now. Work is getting busier (which I love)! I’ve come to realize where my strengths are in the work place: problem solving and stream lining processes. Perhaps those fall under the same category? Give me a problem and ask me to come up with a way to resolve the current issue or at least bring us a step closer to resolving the issue. I guess that’s where my “wanting to help fix things and help people” characteristics come out.

My health – I have been maintaining an active lifestyle. I’m the most active at this point in my life than I have ever been. AND…I love it. I have great a group of friends to go hiking with on the weekends. I now run 4 miles at least 3 times a week (2 miles on the off days). Okay…the eating I could definitely work on :/.

Social life – it’s GREAT. I have been meeting some awesome people. I have the greatest friends…specifically, my girlfriends. We go out regularly and WE KNOW how to have a good time. I’ve been meeting a few guys while out…but to be honest…I’m just NOT AT ALL interested. That day will come when I am ready to date…right now, it’s not the time. I’m having too much fun spoiling myself. I’m not ready to share ME with another man. And okay I’ll have to admit…I have a few crushes: Jon and Bill from the Shout House (dueling piano bar in downtown). There’s just something about a man who can work the piano (or any instrument).

There you have it folks, my weakness: men who have the natural ability to play an instrument. Specifically the piano and/or the guitar. If he can sing…BONUS. If he’s educated with at least a bachelor’s degree…PERFECT. Juliet’s ideal man = musician + educated + a few other things that I’d like to keep between me, myself and I :D

On the flip side – the big 2-5 is approaching in a little over a month and I plan on spending it jumping out of a plane. Oh, the fun I will have!

Plans for grad school have been postponed. Although, I will still be taking the GRE in May. I’m in no rush right now to go back to school. Months ago, I was super gung-ho about it…but realized…there are a few things that I need to take care of before committing and investing in grad school. I’m in a good place right now…

I’ve learned to “chill-out”. Take each day for what it is and to NOT always have a plan…that sometimes the best times in my life seem to be unplanned. Or at least…when I plan my goals…they are realistic ones - goals that I can measure. Dreams and goals…2 different things.

Alright folks…that’s all for now. Enjoy the rest of February and think about doing something that you have never done before the month is up. Perhaps sing a song at karaoke in front of strangers, learn to play an instrument, volunteer at a local food bank, run a 5K, sky dive, join a local co-ed sports team like ultimate frisbee…there’s so much to do...GET OUT AND DO SOMETHING :D

Sunday, January 23, 2011

If You Strip Me...

You will find a wounded but strong woman fighting her every day battles. A woman who once didn't take care of her own physical and mental state.

A woman who will not settle for anyone and anything. Who is constantly working to improve herself.

A woman who once let laziness take over her life. But now, is conquering it and it FEELS OH-SO-FREAKIN-GOOD.

You will find a loving soul. A woman who loves life and will do everything she needs to do to live it to the fullest...until the day she drops dead on this earth.

A woman who settled for what was in front of her and didn't take the challenges that fell on her lap.

A woman who is on the road to physical and mental succession. Who believes that happiness comes from within you, first.

She is on her way to finding what truly makes her happy in life. She's finding HERSELF.

Sunday, December 5, 2010

My Purpose....right now....

I love my life. I love the people in my life. I love the people who allow me to be me...in their life.

My purpose is to make you laugh when you've had a rough day.
To listen to you when you need to vent.
To give you advice when you ask.
To cheer you up when you are sad.
To motivate you when you say you can't do it.
To inspire you when you lose hope.
To support you when you've made a decision.
To be honest.
To love you.


But ultimately...my purpose, right now... is to make sure I am happy FIRST. People, it's okay to be selfish. Take care of number 1...you! Then when that's taken care of...spread the love :) Be there for those who you love and care for.

xoxo. Love you all! Have a great week!

"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." ~Dr. Seuss